Saturday, April 14, 2012

Is my husband bored with me?

My husband cheated on me a while ago and while I think we have somewhat moved past that, he doesn't really seem interested in me. When we first started couples' counseling the therapist said to get things on track he was going to have to be putting most of the effort in to regain my trust and get back to where we were. Since then there have been some significant changes mainly just being more transparent in our lives, and sucbing to giving up activities that cause me to question his trustworthiness and yada yada yada. So anyway while he has done that and I am so thankful he has and have expressed this to him on numerous occasions, I feel that I am the only one who is trying to improve our marriage beyond where we were prior to the affair. I have written letters of appreciation for all the hardwork he does to support us, and have gotten him cards that just say I love him. I have gone through great lengths to improve my uality so that we can both experience a better life together. I wrote him a list of 50 things I love about him. I engage him in what is going on in his life, ask and discuss things that interest him, and how his day went. He will discuss all these things with me which is good, but he never takes the same interest in me. I am 6months pregnant with our second child and he doesn't really show interest in that, he doesn't ask how my day was, he never tells me I'm beautiful, or compliment me on anything really. He will say something like I"m y or something if he is trying to have with me within the next hour or so. I just don't feel like he is interested in me anymore. Is he bored with me?

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