Are our relationships with others a reflection of the relationships with ourselves?

I think it's a balance -- for the same reason they say that you can't be in a romantic relationship until you have a healthy relationship with yourself. Relationships with others helps us better understand what type of people we are (based on what type of people we seek out), but honestly, without a healthy relationship with yourself, you won't be able to understand anyone else. So, I guess I think it's the opposite of what you're asking.... Just thought it was kinda interesting. : )