My boyfriend says i am too high maitenance?

I go tanning like 2 times a week, work out almost everyday, wear minimal makeup: foundation eyeliner mascara, and dress like a normal 20 year old!! like victorias secret t shirts and skirts with leggings...jeans...uggs. I blowdry and straighten my hair every other day. he says i am too "high maitenance" and it is a turnoff and annoying...so I stopped going tanning and wearing as much makeup and don't work out as much...but now I don't feel like I look as good and have lost confidence but my boyfriend likes me more! what should I do?