The most amazing question!!!! 10 PTS for best answer?

Okay boys, teens..Men we all got needs...Heck even girls, teens..Women have needs. We all got things in common...!!. Thats something we'll all of us or alot of us have seen during our teenaged years. Teens look at and maybe women do aswell. You have a family dinner with everyone in your family or a family member just comes to visit. Alot of teens get caught looking at while most and very few do not. You hear Parents and other Adults say we all looked at that stuff before, if you didnt you wouldnt be human. Or they say everyone feels themselves if they didnt they wouldnt be human. Then if that is true and we or all of us do, do it as teens then why do parents make it such a big deal saying "why are you looking at that" then getting punished!?!? isnt it just being human and a natural thing to do? Give me your straight up honest answer on what you think about this whole thing.