Any chance of anything happening? what should i do?

I'm answering the 1st question about how to handle your new hair style. And it might help with this question also. When the war started I shaved my head. It looked strange to people until I put ear-cuffs, not earrings, on. The ear-cuffs looked good and also made men start talking to me. I don't know if it was because they were intrigued or curious or felt safe because they thought I might be a . It was fascinating. And when I quit shaving my hair came back so much healthier. I'm so glad I did it. With regards to your friend, he said, he would come to the party if YOU wanted him to. I take that to mean that he will do it for you, not that he wants to be around people who don't like him. If he does go to the party, be sure to pay attention to how he is being treated. If it is not comfortable for him, you should suggest that you AND he go elsewhere to finish the evening alone.